Saturday 23rd February 2002
by adminhow to write a letter from two people
We all know that holding a grudge is extremely destructive. It deprives you of your peace of mind, makes you sick, and prevents you looking for a real solution to your problem. Despite the damage it causes, it is very difficult to get rid of resentment. The illusion that you punish the other party or you do reports can be tempting to simply get rid of it.
Is there some way However, for an easier to kill him and return to a healthy and happy life going?
Abraham Lincoln gave the following notice: Write a letter to the other party that your complaint. Not just write a draft, but correct until it is ready to be sent. Then put it in an envelope, address, and then store it in a drawer forever! A variant of this (if you're afraid it could be), the letter mailed to some distant place without a return address on the envelope!
If this does no other way than to get rid of resentment is to determine whether your anger is really reasonable or not. Ask yourself:
* My resentment is a reality based on my interpretation of what happened? If your colleague, spouse, friend or not to pick up the phone does not necessarily mean that deliberately ignore you. The bell may be the quiet, the phone may be far from them, or they could be absorbed by what they did, they heard not.
* Are my feelings based on something that has already happened or what I think will happen? Many of our complaints are based on a result pain or side of something someone said or did. Make sure they really affected you and you may not be harmed in the future. Remember, a colleague who makes fun of you for your boss, the boss does not think you are stupid and you fire. Instead he went to see your ability to control your emotions and it will respect you.
* Is this a slip up or something constant time? Joanne planned a dinner tonight that Mark, her husband had an important meeting, he spoke a few days earlier. Her first thought was that she did not care about his career. After discussing her feelings with me, he remembered how she helps her work and came to the conclusion that they are not malicious, but simply forgotten.
A final important word. You can not expect to immediately remove the evil. It may take several hours, days or weeks, depending on how whose pain was deep. Stay active eliminate resentment and you will eventually succeed. You will not regret it!
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